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Post by kamadoma on Oct 11, 2005 7:36:43 GMT 8
just a sad story o' mine:
3 years ago may gf ako. we broke up kasi ayaw ng parents niya. so I waited mga 2 years after we broke up. just this July i got communication with her ulit. she gave me a chance, kasi ngayon daw legal ni siya magka bf.
so i did everything i could, kasi those 2 years I was only single, though meron ako ibang natriphan na girls, siya pa rin talaga. and just last month ata di na siya gaano nagrereply sa akin (yeah we live far from each other kaya minsan dalaw dalaw pero most of the time text lang kasi long distance din) she wasn't entertaining me. not even once a day. I wonder why.
just last night, nagparamdam ako. she told me.
"lets stay friends, friendship is all I can give. btw I have a bf na and I love him so much.. sori.. bye"
and that moment I felt like nagpakatanga lang ako. she should've told me na lang honestly rather than let it pass mga isang buwan na di niya ako kinakausap and ended it with that.
years I've waited... all for nothin'. oh well that's life for me.
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Post by archaznable on Oct 11, 2005 8:53:39 GMT 8
ouch that's hurt di ka nag iisa pre naranasan ko rin yan about my gf pero a different story naman as you go along on reading my threads it's about her bc life naman dahil marami siyang inaasikaso about the work and about school dahil nag mamasteral siya eh ako naman nag papa star struck effect. Kasi siya naman she had no time for me kasi she is very bc about her work and also her school dahil nag mamasteral nga siya eh ako i have all the time in the world. Di niya ako nakaka usap gabi gabi kasi dati she was talking to me every night then always concerned about me looking for me everywhere when i was not around and now nada nothing kahit concerned ala oh well ika nga ganyan talaga ang buhay .... She broke up with me dahil sa studies niya and her bc work and ako naman never give up pero we still have our communications and we still see each other naman kung baga cool off muna kami because of her studies kaya i understand her naman eh .... kaya about you never give also wag kang mag hanap dahil darating din yan pag dating ng araw (grabe showbiz hehehe the buzz) .... pray na lang hingi ka na lang kay Lord na bigyan ka ng Gundam na PG na RX-78-2 este GF pala hehehe ... siguro yan lang ang ma ipapayo ko sa iyo (Amen) hehehe ... If you really love the girl then set her free if she come's back to you then that's the time that she was really yours and if she doesn't really comes back to you look for another one as simple as that and that is really life ....  |
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Post by r2d2t2 on Oct 11, 2005 9:10:31 GMT 8
sometimes when a door closes, a window opens... move on dude, move on  |
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Post by Garvy on Oct 11, 2005 9:37:07 GMT 8
Someone told me this recently and it could apply here, "the best revenge is living well!".
Cheers,
Garvy
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Post by genocide on Oct 11, 2005 10:19:36 GMT 8
sometimes i wonder, why women get hurt by the most shallow reasons, while tayong mga men nagkakaganito... as in hintay tayo for the girl and we get nothing... while sila napaka dali mag recover from a lost relationship... opposite sex nga... hehehe....
i've been torn apart in the past... as in broken.... life threatening situation, as i would call it.... made me do things i shouldn't do... ngayon nagsisisi ako... never should have done that for her... well... mas mahabang story cguro ung skin....
well im happy with my GF now... 3 years & 7months na kme... and napakasaya nmin...
lahat tayo dpat dumaan jan sa pagka-broken hearted... it will make us strong... or maybe a better person... makes you learn things na hindi mo matututunan sa school o kahit saan pa.... it's like a trial... if you passed---alive(hehehe)... then, when you get out you'll realize na iba ka na mag-isip...
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Post by matttracker on Oct 11, 2005 12:39:34 GMT 8
it's hard to give unsolicited advice but "nuts happens" in anything that we do. i once tried to reach out to my ex-gf but unfortunately, she got married...and the weird thing about it is she even sent me an invitation (siyempre, dehins ako nagpunta). i moved on, met a girl and dated her for 6 months. again, i was broken hearted, bakit kamo; lesbian pala siya! her dad told me: "mabait ka kaso ang anak ko eh...(massaging his nape) yung tulad niya...salamat hijo sa ipinakita mong pagmamahal sa anak ko..." ay sus, my world went upside down. i didn't know if i would laugh, cry or run through the streets naked. anyway, the Big Man/Woman upstairs was kind enough to introduce someone...ngayon, mag 2 years na kami. she will come, i tell you...in a way you would never expect. just be happy and collect your zoids! hope God will always bless you!
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Post by matttracker on Oct 11, 2005 12:40:55 GMT 8
erratum: "nuts happens" not "nuts happens"...this pc is possessed i tell you...
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Post by kamadoma on Oct 11, 2005 12:47:50 GMT 8
di niyo ba alam nung 1st yr. HS crush ko un, then 4th naging classmate ko then niligawan ko naging kami 5 months. hehehe
then now i was back, but then I got busted up. oh well it seems talagang di na uli ako makakadalaw sa kanila, which means less gastos hehehe layo din place nila sa amin. pang zoids na din yun. of course medyo dismayado pa rin ako sa fact na pinaasa niya ako rather than telling me the truth, idadaan ko na lang sa zoids to nyehehehe,.
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Post by Chaoz on Oct 11, 2005 12:51:30 GMT 8
erratum: "nuts happens" not "nuts happens"...this pc is possessed i tell you... umm both are the same  |
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Post by kamadoma on Oct 11, 2005 19:01:23 GMT 8
dapat "nuts happen" hehehe oh well wala na ako magagawa sa nangyari, recovery mode.
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Post by Joemar on Oct 11, 2005 19:36:06 GMT 8
Madami na...di lang break-ups...busted pa madalas hehehe;D sorry to hear that pre...pero alam mo yun...after a break-up...talaga tayong mga lalaki...talagang tinatamaan.. ako nga..longest ko 3years and a half...shortest...................................1 week ;D |
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Post by Joemar on Oct 11, 2005 19:41:40 GMT 8
Someone told me this recently and it could apply here, "the best revenge is living well!". Cheers, Garvy Tama ka dude...."tuloy mo lang...now it's your time" |
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Post by kamadoma on Oct 11, 2005 19:45:28 GMT 8
hehehe sana may new space na dito para mag zoid building marathon ako.
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Post by Chainer on Oct 11, 2005 20:57:30 GMT 8
sorry to hear that... pero thats life for you pre... advise ko lang "get drunk.. cry it all out... then move on!" Hehehe.
-wel
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Post by kamadoma on Oct 11, 2005 21:00:24 GMT 8
buuin ko na lang schneider unit ko this thursday tapos ng exams...
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keeping the site active as a place to dump info for easier backtracking. 