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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Dec 9, 2005 5:18:38 GMT 8
OK... i think i really need to get this off my system again... you know, i have this brother who is really a jerk! (oldest bro? don't see him as a brother, more like a hated person) He's the type who thinks he's immortal, and always the good guy never the bad guy type of way. (even he's doing all the bad things... He always likes to brag How great he is and How unbeatable too) he always, get to fight with everyone (And i mean everyone.) his wife and child left him for punching her. and all of our neighbors despise him. but he thinks he's still right and the "good guy" everyone else, bad or stupid. right now he lives here with us. and still making our life heck... because of this, we didn't feel like putting up our decorations for christmas.... especially me. i really hate my brother so much... as a kid he always beats me up really bad.... and he always said to me, " Wala ka ng laban sa akin! kayang kita patayin!" I always try to fight back. but everytime i almost get to beat him for good, my conscience and pity gets in the way... And i end up paying for that by being hit with a rock or a something really hard that my head, and it will get really battered or bloody up.
To be honest, it all started over 8 years ago.... When he berserk against my cousins and cause of this, my dad got his first major heart attack. I saw he's eyes, and all i saw ways just finishing off my two cousins for the lamest excuse of loosing to a Darth game and got teased.... all that time, he just wants to show off that he can beat anyone.
He hasn't change and gotten worst. just recently, he brag that i was only a bum while he was bragging that he is going abroad and gettting rich... i cant' stand him.. really makes me make me sick just breathing the same air with him... ironic that, all those karma that was meant for him ends up with me...
i mean, people backstabbing me, getting harder to earn trust among other peepz. Also, even with girls before. ( My bro was also a womenizer too.) all the bad traits you can think of he has it. i just don't know what to do now... i want to fight back, but i end up losing to myself....
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Post by V2 on Dec 9, 2005 8:35:25 GMT 8
"i hate you!!! I REALLY HATE YOU!!!"
the good thing about you is that you wont steep down to his level regardless of how much he tries to take you on. sometimes its better off to walk away than to take things head on. true, justice in this world isnt served in time or in due, but heck - justice served by your own hands isnt justice at all.
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Post by archaznable on Dec 9, 2005 10:36:45 GMT 8
yup yup leave him be and when you are intimidated or irritated by him because his always bragging or teasing you say to him "Begone for I will never again listen to any of your word you say unto me again understand" fighting by fist will never resolves anything only by a peaceful means of walking away.
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Dec 9, 2005 22:07:59 GMT 8
Well thanks. Anyway, its kinda hard since everytime i turn my back on him, i get hit with sumthing. (Which its hurt like, heck!!) This is going on for years and i just keep trying, sumtimes, i end up fioghtin him if i got no other option. I guess no family is perfect. In my case, its alsways the same thing... I just try to do other things. Loike collection or talking and if you notice, I speak my mind often just to kick it off my system even for a day. To V2: I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing but thank you.  |
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Post by Adelaine on Dec 10, 2005 13:43:49 GMT 8
I saw this in a movie once (I think it's "Dry Wood, Fierce Fire"): get an empty glass bottle, fill it with water, and shout all your frustrations and hatred into it. Afterwards, just throw the water away.  . I personally found it ....amusing... to say the least, but a friend tried it and says it works. Ororooo. Hehe, maybe it could work for you? ;D |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Dec 10, 2005 18:22:51 GMT 8
I saw this in a movie once (I think it's "Dry Wood, Fierce Fire"): get an empty glass bottle, fill it with water, and shout all your frustrations and hatred into it. Afterwards, just throw the water away. . I personally found it ....amusing... to say the least, but a friend tried it and says it works. Ororooo. Hehe, maybe it could work for you? ;D i'll try anything once. At this point, I just try to ignor him... but its kinda impossible coz, he always manage rto get everyones mood bad. I always never do what he does... but for sum strange irrony, i ends up paying fo 'HIS' wrong. how about you guys? do you have this same or simular delemma? |
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Post by V2 on Dec 10, 2005 18:22:54 GMT 8
i think you'll also need a soundproof room... otherwise people would give you odd looks when you go outside. I saw this in a movie once (I think it's "Dry Wood, Fierce Fire"): get an empty glass bottle, fill it with water, and shout all your frustrations and hatred into it. Afterwards, just throw the water away. . I personally found it ....amusing... to say the least, but a friend tried it and says it works. Ororooo. Hehe, maybe it could work for you? ;D |
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Post by mukodono on Dec 11, 2005 9:31:20 GMT 8
fortunately for me i never experience dat,anyway bro. hayaan mo lng sya i hope one day he will realize na lahat ng pinag gagawa nya ay mali and if he still doesn't come to realization then i fell sorry and pity for him. :-(
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Post by Joemar on Dec 11, 2005 9:45:53 GMT 8
Ok lang maging BUM wag lang Kups...tulad nya..
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Dec 11, 2005 22:20:01 GMT 8
Ok lang maging BUM wag lang Kups...tulad nya.. haha ture  ^_^ Tp mukodono: thanks. Hay, its kinda like, Living with your worst enemy for like, forever! arg!!! i do my best to ignor him. but its kinda like he knows it and makes it worst. like, he likes nnoying me and everyone around him. and as for changing for the better? forget it! i'm not counting on tat. every year, it just gets worst. He abuse his his luck more. |
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Post by matttracker on Dec 12, 2005 11:52:30 GMT 8
I saw this in a movie once (I think it's "Dry Wood, Fierce Fire"): get an empty glass bottle, fill it with water, and shout all your frustrations and hatred into it. Afterwards, just throw the water away. . I personally found it ....amusing... to say the least, but a friend tried it and says it works. Ororooo. Hehe, maybe it could work for you? ;D i'll try anything once. At this point, I just try to ignor him... but its kinda impossible coz, he always manage rto get everyones mood bad. I always never do what he does... but for sum strange irrony, i ends up paying fo 'HIS' wrong. how about you guys? do you have this same or simular delemma? I had the same problem a few months ago. Although it wasn't with a family member, I had to do something about it. My former officemate was a violent man. He conned a lot of people to serve his means. Although his life is pathetic, I was one of the people who reached out to help him. I lent him money because kawawa naman. But, when the time came for him to pay up, he started giving excuses and threatened me. He was a really huge guy and I know how violent he was. One day, me, him and my officemates had a few drinks at a nearby restaurant. We were having a few drinks and having fun. Suddenly, he stood up and started pointing his finger at me. The guys were trying to pacify him but he was really all fired up. So he approached me and I stood up. He twisted my shirt's collar and shouted. Basically, he tried to land a fist on my face but I was able to kick his *****. That taught him a lesson and was terminated from the office (our clients were at the same place that time and witnessed everything). The sad thing is...I never got the money he owed me.  |
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Post by genocide on Dec 12, 2005 12:12:01 GMT 8
haha! when you kick "that" part of a violent/evil man... you must not hold back! concentrate your powers to you dominant leg and release it with all your strength.... whehehe... ala kung fu...
he may not be able to pay you but i sure hope you did a permanent damage... serves him right...
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Post by archaznable on Dec 12, 2005 12:22:05 GMT 8
matttrackerganun hehehe that is a double ouch a lowblow to that guy serves him right maybe that is the hardest lesson that you gave to him that he will never forget nag ala WWE ka ha hehehe good thing you hit him (fast reaction) first before he lands a fist on your face and good thing you have a witness right before you and they know that the guy started it first not you. Way to go man. ;D
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Post by matttracker on Dec 13, 2005 11:50:40 GMT 8
thank you, @ archaznable and genocide. yep, he was 6'2" and weighs around 200lbs. me, 5'4 and 138lbs. although i was really scared cuz he was big and stronger than me, i just remembered na "family jewels" ang weakness nang kahit sinong lalaki. anyway, sometimes you have to stand up and assert your right. it's a primal trait naman with each and everyone. we have our own temperments. ang iba, mahaba ang pasensya tapos yung iba, short-fused. i just tried to rationalize why he was so mad at me and the world. but, i had to do something or else ako yari. i was a good thing a lot of my officemates and bosses were witnesses. after that, he never bothered me and even apologized. sayang lang yung cash...10K din yun ;D
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Post by V2 on Dec 13, 2005 15:40:18 GMT 8
heh. when opportunity strikes, kick it up hard!
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. I personally found it ....amusing... to say the least, but a friend tried it and says it works. Ororooo.
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