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Post by patacat on Nov 22, 2005 13:10:48 GMT 8
ok. so let's stick with the romantic type of love. since that was what most of us were pertaining to. that's how this thread started anyway. just to lessen confusion and definition problems  |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Nov 23, 2005 0:49:07 GMT 8
this is getting complicated by day if you guys notice it? haha ^_^
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Post by archaznable on Nov 23, 2005 2:34:43 GMT 8
guys for example lang ha what if a girl and a guy agrees with each other for a break up not because they have a big fight but because the girl has too many priorities in her mind like promotion in work, bc schedule, studies etc. and then after a month the guy again wanted to be with the girl and start all over again because the guy still has love and a feeling for the girl and always misses the happy moments with girl. But the girl still insisted and said to the guy that she was bc and have no room for the guy. Then the guy went on to try for another second round of courting like giving the girl flowers, gifts, chocolate, love letters, but still the girl wouldn't accept it. But the girl is accepting the gifts and flowers, fud and love letters ofcourse hehehe but without feelings. But still hanging out with the guy but no feelings bec. syempre of works and bc sched. because hindi papayag yung girl na masira yung concentration niya about her work and studies but they only have time for picking up the girl in the house droping by in the office. Pero in a short time only not unlike before that the guy and the girl has a long time with each other like watching movie, shopping, holding hands while walking around pa swing swing pa hehehe. Haaay such a long story .....  but what would you do if you are in the case of the guy will you still continue your effort with the girl for a second round? or should you look for another one? or wait till the girl really has a free time or a li-low with her sched?  |
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Post by patacat on Nov 23, 2005 3:16:48 GMT 8
move on. you'll just be wasting your efforts trying to coax the girl that obviously does not want to get back into a relationship. you can wait if you want until the "opportunity" arises but be wary. sometimes someone who says that they are too busy to handle a relationship could just be making up a poor excuse for a break up.
if you can wait and you are sure that the girl is still in love with you, wait. let her get her priorities straight. but if the girl starts giving you the cold shoulder, think twice. maybe it is time to move on. other opportunities may pass you by.
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Post by archaznable on Nov 23, 2005 3:37:52 GMT 8
move on. you'll just be wasting your efforts trying to coax the girl that obviously does not want to get back into a relationship. you can wait if you want until the "opportunity" arises but be wary. sometimes someone who says that they are too busy to handle a relationship could just be making up a poor excuse for a break up. if you can wait and you are sure that the girl is still in love with you, wait. let her get her priorities straight. but if the girl starts giving you the cold shoulder, think twice. maybe it is time to move on. other opportunities may pass you by. yah maybe your right there .... but its hard to move on .... like what others have said that sometimes memories of your happiness with the girl still hunt you down in tears. |
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Post by archaznable on Nov 23, 2005 3:43:32 GMT 8
*sigh why is it that love is so complicated? |
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Post by patacat on Nov 23, 2005 4:22:30 GMT 8
move on. you'll just be wasting your efforts trying to coax the girl that obviously does not want to get back into a relationship. you can wait if you want until the "opportunity" arises but be wary. sometimes someone who says that they are too busy to handle a relationship could just be making up a poor excuse for a break up. if you can wait and you are sure that the girl is still in love with you, wait. let her get her priorities straight. but if the girl starts giving you the cold shoulder, think twice. maybe it is time to move on. other opportunities may pass you by. yah maybe your right there .... but its hard to move on .... like what others have said that sometimes memories of your happiness with the girl still hunt you down in tears. been there man. and yes moving on is hard but things'll get better sooner or later. as for the memories? they are indeed one of your worst foes when it comes to these things. but there's always hope. if you guys are really meant for each other then you'll get there. if not, m sure there is always someone out there for you that'll make things so much better. |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Nov 23, 2005 5:27:29 GMT 8
To Arch: You know, no one can say that, its ok forget about it And to move on just like that... But its really up to you. That is the best thing i can say to you since i've been there more than one occation. And i don't like people saying for me to move on or give up. its just up to you really... if you are ready to move on or fight for it.  Even the person who rejected you may have a change of hearth or not... coz, life and love is like, a wheel. you just have to wait for it to turn or you have to turn it, to get to the top of it again... You know what must be done. and that is not to weep forever or hurt yourself more... Just give it time for your answer to come. ^_^ To UOP: I tell you, if this keeps up at this rate, i'll run out of advice and quotes to say and end up just posting like this haha ;D To Patacat: All have been in the dumps at one point or another, ( cept for those pleyahs) anyway, Its just up to the person who is facing this problem to find a solution... it may take a long time or it will just pop out just like that. |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Nov 23, 2005 21:36:44 GMT 8
To Anakin: Yeah I know what you mean, I too am running out of ideas and sometime some of these post are like my memories coming to life again except this time its not me experiencing them. To Arch: it wouldn't be love if it aint complicated hehe Ah.. don't sweat it man. it wll be alright no matter how much you think it won't ^_^ its just shows up when you least expected. ad tat goes for the rest of you guys ^_^ |
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Post by archaznable on Nov 23, 2005 21:45:47 GMT 8
maybe for me i'll decide nalang to wait till there is an opportunity again for me or maybe a little more of space. Well if there will be no more opportunities talaga to go back to well siguro nga it will be better to look for someone much better than before .... *sigh its hard to find love  ..... its hard to find someone with the same likeness, or a complete package. |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Nov 24, 2005 0:05:02 GMT 8
herr's a tip, its better to meet sumone the total opposite. ^_^ trust me.
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Post by archaznable on Nov 24, 2005 3:18:16 GMT 8
herr's a tip, its better to meet sumone the total opposite. ^_^ trust me. hmmm what do you mean by total opposite? is it a total opposite of everything that you are? like hobbies and stuff?  |
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Post by patacat on Nov 24, 2005 6:17:11 GMT 8
herr's a tip, its better to meet sumone the total opposite. ^_^ trust me. it still has its ups and downs. |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Nov 24, 2005 14:17:26 GMT 8
to clarify this, well opposites attracts, ne? Cause the other will always learn from you more.. and vice-versa! Unike two persons who have the same interest. ( Sumtimes, its really nice if you are trying to convert a person who has no interest on what you like ^_^ ) Well, you will have more time to get to know each other that way. ^_^ and you will always have a lot to talk about. And you learn for the other sumthing new. ^_^
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Post by genocide on Nov 24, 2005 14:36:28 GMT 8
you'll meet your match someday... no need to hurry things up... and Anakin has a good point... converting makes a very good connection between partners...
or maybe it's the way you treat her??? and both party's level of appreciation...
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Jun 6, 2013 3:45:32 GMT 8
keeping the site active as a place to dump info for easier backtracking. 
keeping the site active as a place to dump info for easier backtracking.