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Post by archaznable on Nov 30, 2005 20:23:02 GMT 8
i guess everybody here have a lot in common in there relationship . . . . are there any such thing as a true perfect relationship that doesn't have ups and downs?  That kind of relationship (no ups and downs) isn't really perfect... you'll get bored to death eventually... and grow emotionally frail... ummm maybe your right there .... because some of my barkada usually say to me na if you are not fighting with each other (not literaly a boxing match or a wrestling match just minimal verbal words) or no fighting at all means its not a healthy relationship. kami kasi usually doesn't fight at all even before just a little misunderstanding thats all maybe because im too mabait talaga to her. Maybe bec. she is just testing me or dahil just na nagsasawa lang siya sa akin dahil sa sobrang bait ko sa kanya na she wanted to see me get mad or make like a super saiyan pero i can't do that im not a violent type of person. haaay love nga naman.  if you are in love with a girl you would do everything under the sun just for her even if it kills you or empty your wallet just to make her happy.  |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Nov 30, 2005 22:20:46 GMT 8
@anakin: Haha, I thought the Brag or Gripe was the most replied-to thread? ;D AS i said, the most posted hehe ^_^ And you know what? why am i reading 2 pages after i last posted here? Oh well... can't help it if i can go online for an hour a day. To arch: MAn, just remember, She will love you even for the most simples things you do for her. ^_^ as long you do it from the hearth. To Twisted: Twist... Check is really down huh? anyway, How many guys here who are feeling the chrismas loneliness? And how about you? how its hanging on your end? Hope your doing better now. ;)Read you other post heeh ;D To Checkmate: just give it time ok? there is nothing much you can do about it for now. but it doesn't mean that, you should just mop...  Think of it this way. she may be the one who lose more than you have. Coz, she let you go ^)^ ne? |
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Post by patacat on Nov 30, 2005 23:22:00 GMT 8
If it'll make you feel any better... sometimes it's the girl who's the dense one of the pair. And I think that's true in my case. sometimes, but not in my case. i gotta admit, if i had picked up on some things, maybe we wouldn't have parted. |
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Post by Adelaine on Dec 1, 2005 8:26:29 GMT 8
And the girls know that already *evil grin*. I must confess, sometimes I'm tempted to take advantage..... But in the end, I think it's only fair. Coz if a girl truly loves a guy, she'd do the same for him. ;D
You're probably right. But a relationship is always between *two* people, and the girl's got to understand that it's unreasonable to expect you to have ESP/telekinesis or something.
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Post by r2d2t2 on Dec 1, 2005 10:44:45 GMT 8
ever been heartbroken?
a proud NO.
my gf and i will be 6 yrs and 4 mo this saturday.
thats 6 yrs and 4 mo and counting...
whats the secret? very elementary. a lot of understanding and honesty.
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Post by archaznable on Dec 1, 2005 10:46:53 GMT 8
And the girls know that already *evil grin*. I must confess, sometimes I'm tempted to take advantage..... But in the end, I think it's only fair. Coz if a girl truly loves a guy, she'd do the same for him. ;D nah sadly that is not my case .... i've been doing everything for her giving gifts, giving everything that she wants just to be happy but sadly there were no returns for me or whatsoever that would make me happy .... *sigh i was hoping for that someday she would do it for me but im not in a hurry naman eh so no problem there. |
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Post by Checkmate! on Dec 1, 2005 11:49:12 GMT 8
ever been heartbroken? a proud NO. my gf and i will be 6 yrs and 4 mo this saturday. thats 6 yrs and 4 mo and counting... whats the secret? very elementary. a lot of understanding and honesty. no plans of getting married yet? |
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Post by r2d2t2 on Dec 1, 2005 11:56:01 GMT 8
probably two or three yrs from now. we're currently enjoying single lyf. she has her obligations also and i have mine. chaka ipon muna  |
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Post by patacat on Dec 1, 2005 23:15:03 GMT 8
got to talk to my ex earlier today. we worked some things out, came to an understanding and are now back to being friends. and i must say it feels good to make peace with someone you consider to be an important part of your life. oh, and she finally gave me the reason why she broke up with me. not that it matters anymore but at least now i know. and it was a good one. what she did really was for our benefit. so i guess my broken heart is mended? |
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Post by archaznable on Dec 2, 2005 11:13:05 GMT 8
got to talk to my ex earlier today. we worked some things out, came to an understanding and are now back to being friends. and i must say it feels good to make peace with someone you consider to be an important part of your life. oh, and she finally gave me the reason why she broke up with me. not that it matters anymore but at least now i know. and it was a good one. what she did really was for our benefit. so i guess my broken heart is mended? well that is nice to hear ;D i hope that everything will be ok and never give up. malay mo someday you'll gonna see the light of day again hehehe .... ;D the trick there is never give up on who you like always have patience don't let the dark side rule you.  ;D |
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Post by patacat on Dec 2, 2005 13:11:03 GMT 8
To twisted: i wish i could say there was a secret to it but there really wasn't. the thing is both of us wanted to end things well and so we did what we could. we didnt want to let two years of being together go to waste. maybe that's what your friend needs to realize, that 5yrs of friendship isnt just something you throw away. to UOP: no worries here. i do plan to cherish this friendship. and yeah, no more mistakes *keeps fingers crossed* ;D to arch: hahaha. m satisfied with what we have now. it would be nice to get back together again but i dont think itll happen soon if not ever. m just glad that we've made peace |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Dec 3, 2005 21:33:03 GMT 8
AS i said, the most posted hehe ^_^ And you know what? why am i reading 2 pages after i last posted here? Oh well... can't help it if i can go online for an hour a day. To arch: MAn, just remember, She will love you even for the most simples things you do for her. ^_^ as long you do it from the hearth. To Twisted: Twist... Check is really down huh? anyway, How many guys here who are feeling the chrismas loneliness? And how about you? how its hanging on your end? Hope your doing better now. ;)Read you other post heeh ;D To Checkmate: just give it time ok? there is nothing much you can do about it for now. but it doesn't mean that, you should just mop... Think of it this way. she may be the one who lose more than you have. Coz, she let you go ^)^ ne? Hanging on... Doing other stuff... Enjoying TANTRA, anime, PS2 games, work? wenk... haha. hey try Harvest moon, "a wonderful life." its a great game if your trying to enjoy a good game. ^_^ and i think we'll get another new thread verysoon. everytme log one new post i get to read here. ^_^ |
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Post by archaznable on Dec 4, 2005 1:01:27 GMT 8
twistedI think you need to do more, be sweet to him again, be more malambing to him again, do the same thing that you do in your 5 years in a row, or do the feminine stuff that every woman do that would make guys happy go lucky. Let him feel that you are still around, send him a letter, a gift, or leave him a truly touching message that would leave a mark on him. Or maybe yet talk to him seriously let your emotion run on him ..... (I suggest you need to watch Onegai Teacher or Please Teacher this is a great romantic anime you can steal some ideas on that show hehehe). Well i hope this helps you.
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Post by *UltimateGaoJP* on Dec 4, 2005 7:36:15 GMT 8
Two words...Unrequited love. the worst kind of heartbreak is having this ultimate love but it sucks cause you cant have her. You already had her, but you let her go so all you can do is sit in a pool of regret thinking of what might have been.......Ouch!!!!
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Dec 5, 2005 19:31:27 GMT 8
haha. hey try Harvest moon, "a wonderful life." its a great game if your trying to enjoy a good game. ^_^ and i think we'll get another new thread verysoon. everytme log one new post i get to read here. ^_^ hmm... ill give it a go.. after the series of seminars.. OMG! hey, i already ran out of good proverbs, advices haha ;D so, i rather introduce ya to harvest moon. ^^ |
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Think of it this way. she may be the one who lose more than you have. Coz, she let you go ^)^ ne?
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