|
|
Post by genocide on Dec 8, 2005 23:14:03 GMT 8
1st one was in high school, lasted for 4 months... and another one for 3 months... then the hurting starts when i had a GF that lasted for 1 and a hlf year... did alot of harmful stuffs to my self that time.... then fling flings no idea how many...
now i have a GF and we've been together for 3yrs 9 months... still not sure of what's ahead of us though...
|
|
|
|
Post by Anakin Skywalker on Dec 9, 2005 1:21:45 GMT 8
sorry to hear that.. HEy! you may never know that, it may be the next guy who will be the one for you?  Oh FYI: if you need tips on how to get throught harvest moon, ask me. don't be shy! im already at chapter three. ;D Same here. maybe he's just not for you.  Well toys will be lot easier then girls/boys. but it too maybe kinda hard for our wallets to take. and as you said it saves us from the heartache and headache if some situation should arise. That's true. Besides, Harvest moo dating is much easier than real thing anyday haha ;D just kidding on that last part dou. ^__^ just give yourself time ok? right UOP? |
|
|
|
Post by Anakin Skywalker on Dec 9, 2005 3:08:24 GMT 8
Yup. After all they say time heals all wound, no matter how deep the wound is, and probably within the healing time mr/ms right will come around and help the healing much faster. ja! ^_^ |
|
Adelaine
DX Gashapon Super Robot
Hayabusa no Ban Kai
Posts: 166
|
Post by Adelaine on Dec 9, 2005 11:17:12 GMT 8
patacat: Just curious, but may I ask... err... you mentioned your 2nd g/f was your former best friend and that it blew up in your faces..... err... well, I've always thought that friendship is a good basis for a relationship eh, so I can't understand how something like that could "blow up in your face"? I'm just curious what happened.... but you don't have to answer. ^^;; I've never been in a relationship before, a lot of firsts for him and me.... of course we can't say anything final, but the trust between us is solid, and that's a very strong foundation, isn't it? Hai hai! ;D I said it before, how terrible your heartache in the past is how happy you will be when things finally come together for you. I believe it's true, coz I've been "heartbroken" for thirteen years (unrequited love), and now I'm ridiculously happy. I'm so happy that I can't help but wonder why everyone else isn't. twisted: you may think this is corny and stuff, but I believe fate will knock on your door someday. I mean, I've seen dreams come true, so why wouldn't it for you?
|
|
|
|
Post by Anakin Skywalker on Dec 9, 2005 22:11:17 GMT 8
Well... Hey its better being single for now. It keeps your budget big ^_^ don't have to spend so much haha
|
|
|
|
Post by patacat on Dec 9, 2005 22:37:26 GMT 8
patacat: Just curious, but may I ask... err... you mentioned your 2nd g/f was your former best friend and that it blew up in your faces..... err... well, I've always thought that friendship is a good basis for a relationship eh, so I can't understand how something like that could "blow up in your face"? I'm just curious what happened.... but you don't have to answer. ^^;; no prob. thing is we started out best friends and fell for each other a few months after her last relationship. and for about a month or so we started treating each other as more than just friends. but the thing is she got mad at me when a rumor started that i was seeing someone else (which isn't true i swear to God). and for the first time we were at each other's throats. we never fought before, even as friends. and now that happened all because of a rumor. we talked about it after our heads cooled of to clear things out and to say our apologies. but there was this awkward stage even after we made up. we kinda fell out of touch for about a month soon after. thing is, we had a great relationship as friends and never really argued about anything. but that fight shook us up pretty bad and without talking about it we decided to just stay as friends. |
|
|
|
Post by archaznable on Dec 12, 2005 2:35:44 GMT 8
is it true that if you stayed friends forever means that your gonna stay best of friends forever? is it better to stay friends muna before stepping into a relationship?
|
|
|
|
Post by matttracker on Dec 12, 2005 11:33:13 GMT 8
is it true that if you stayed friends forever means that your gonna stay best of friends forever? is it better to stay friends muna before stepping into a relationship? it really depends on the people involved. pero, theoretically speaking (correct my "isfelling" if wrong). mas okay kung friends muna. yung past GFs ko eh started that way, mga isang taong ligawan at suyuan bago pumasa at nakuha ang matamis na "OO". ngayon, eh friends na lang kami...hanggang duon na lang yuon. |
|
|
|
Post by archaznable on Dec 28, 2005 0:53:30 GMT 8
before this thread was really forgotten . . . . right now im currently heartbroken . . . . so sad i feel depressed and this is my first time that my heart was broken.  its very hard really you feel na kailangan mong mag susuper saiyan. sabi ko na nga ba i have a feeling that my gf already has another one instead of me. I ask and ask about whats going on with her why is it that she is not telling me everything the truth why is it na hindi na siya nag kukuwento sa akin and everything kahit na nagkikita parin kami. Until she told me that she has another one. it hearts so badly this year was a bad year to me. haay and she told me that its better na maging friends na lang tayo. That word really broke my heart and i cant accept it. i ask her what did i do wrong? and she didn't answer that question. right now i dont know what to do. |
|
|
|
Post by Joemar on Dec 28, 2005 7:25:01 GMT 8
Putehk! Badtrip naman yan!!!....Forget about it bro...just move on...nandyan naman ang toys para sayo... |
|
|
|
Post by V2 on Dec 28, 2005 8:08:53 GMT 8
new year is coming to, and its a sign to move on and start a new chapter in life. it'll be a long and hard road back to singlehood, but once you get the knack of it, you'll do just fine.
the details of your relationship are confidential as everyone would understand, but try to think of the things (faults/shortcomings) that could've led to your gf into the alternative of finding another one - and implement the solutions/improvements into the one whom you'll love next into making sure it'll never happen again.
if your gf would've really loved you, she would've talked to you about it openly, not be a coward and find a "replacement unit" instead. just be thankful that for a short while, you've spent some nice memories with that girl, but dont live on those memories - they'll destroy you slowly.
|
|
|
|
Post by matttracker on Dec 28, 2005 9:22:58 GMT 8
before this thread was really forgotten . . . . right now im currently heartbroken . . . . so sad i feel depressed and this is my first time that my heart was broken. its very hard really you feel na kailangan mong mag susuper saiyan. sabi ko na nga ba i have a feeling that my gf already has another one instead of me. I ask and ask about whats going on with her why is it that she is not telling me everything the truth why is it na hindi na siya nag kukuwento sa akin and everything kahit na nagkikita parin kami. Until she told me that she has another one. it hearts so badly this year was a bad year to me. haay and she told me that its better na maging friends na lang tayo. That word really broke my heart and i cant accept it. i ask her what did i do wrong? and she didn't answer that question. right now i dont know what to do. it's hard to let go at first, but you have to move on. let time heal the pain. then, when the time comes, talk to her and ask for closure. mahirap na pag may loose ends. it will affect your future relationship/s. find something to busy yourself and of course, friends can make wonders for a broken heart. cheers! |
|
|
|
Post by archaznable on Dec 28, 2005 11:41:21 GMT 8
Joemar, V2, and Mattracker yah o nga eh . . . . pero its hard to move on because she is my very first one, and she is the very first one that i love the most out of my entire life. 
|
|
|
|
Post by V2 on Dec 28, 2005 11:48:06 GMT 8
first love never dies, ika nga...
|
|
|
|
Post by Checkmate! on Dec 28, 2005 12:36:15 GMT 8
before this thread was really forgotten . . . . right now im currently heartbroken . . . . so sad i feel depressed and this is my first time that my heart was broken. its very hard really you feel na kailangan mong mag susuper saiyan. sabi ko na nga ba i have a feeling that my gf already has another one instead of me. I ask and ask about whats going on with her why is it that she is not telling me everything the truth why is it na hindi na siya nag kukuwento sa akin and everything kahit na nagkikita parin kami. Until she told me that she has another one. it hearts so badly this year was a bad year to me. haay and she told me that its better na maging friends na lang tayo. That word really broke my heart and i cant accept it. i ask her what did i do wrong? and she didn't answer that question. right now i dont know what to do. What you did wrong? Bakit nga ba tayo nag tatanong nun parati? Simple lang naman talaga e. Nag sawa na sila sa atin. May na meet na mas gusto nila. Parang pag may toy ka na bago diba? sa una mahal na mahal mo pero...may better, badder toy or model na. yung last gf ko nag simula as friends muna. may bf sya nun. andun nag oopen up na siya na masyado na daw 'rotine' buhay niya pag kasama yung bf niya etc. etc. 3 years na silang on nun. sinasabi niya na kesyo ganyan ganito bf niya. nag break sila. na in love ako kinalaunan sa girl tapos naging kami. mag on kami two years. umalis ako andito na ako sa tate. akala ko makapag aantay siya. pero me na meet na iba. the whole time na kami pa meron na palang inentertain na iba. |
|
Oh FYI: if you need tips on how to get throught harvest moon, ask me. don't be shy! im already at chapter three. ;D
[/url]
its very hard really you feel na kailangan mong mag susuper saiyan. sabi ko na nga ba i have a feeling that my gf already has another one instead of me. I ask and ask about whats going on with her why is it that she is not telling me everything the truth why is it na hindi na siya nag kukuwento sa akin and everything kahit na nagkikita parin kami. Until she told me that she has another one. it hearts so badly this year was a bad year to me. 
keeping the site active as a place to dump info for easier backtracking.