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Post by patacat on Dec 28, 2005 15:00:30 GMT 8
first love never dies, ika nga... this is soooooo true. |
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Post by archaznable on Dec 28, 2005 15:33:33 GMT 8
maybe this is just my first stage to build a stronger relationship ... question mga guys why is it that a relationship is so very delicate and a very case sensitive like konting pag kakamali lang ng isa away na kaagad? like konting misunderstanding World War III na? something like that.
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Post by Checkmate! on Dec 28, 2005 15:51:56 GMT 8
maybe this is just my first stage to build a stronger relationship ... question mga guys why is it that a relationship is so very delicate and a very case sensitive like konting pag kakamali lang ng isa away na kaagad? like konting misunderstanding World War III na? something like that. ang totoo nun pag nag ka ganun na di na nila matiis isat isa. yun bang wala na yung pasensya nung nag simula. sa tingin mo ba me love pa pag ganun? or...yung madaling maginit ang ulo for examle yung girl ginagamit niya lang yun as an excuse para makawala sa relationship o kaya naman para ma manipulate yung partner niya. |
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Post by matttracker on Dec 29, 2005 9:58:53 GMT 8
Joemar, V2, and Mattracker yah o nga eh . . . . pero its hard to move on because she is my very first one, and she is the very first one that i love the most out of my entire life.  Speaking of first loves, I agree that it is hard to let go. Take me as an example. I met my first gf when I was 21. We had so much in common and the weird thing is, magkasunod yung birthday namin. That time, we thought things will go as planned and live happily ever after. But reality always bites and we had to part ways. It took me a long time to accept what happened. I was glad that I had support from my family, relatives and friends. She and I touched each other's lives and experienced the "first milestones" as a couple. It will take time to accept and swallow the bitter pill but it will make you into a better person and partner in the future. Yung tungkol sa trivial bantering and fighting at no known reason, it works both ways; it might be because of control (as checkmate said), insecurity about the relationship, an excuse to get out of the "mess" she got into or a sign of immaturity. But sometimes, we all know that women can switch from a good mood to a bad one. Minsan, we just have to read between the lines to find out why unlucky things happen.  |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Dec 29, 2005 11:58:44 GMT 8
i gues my "friend" and I should have stayed as friends too.. just as you did... oh well.. i can relate with you on that one you know? but sumtimes, its better to know the person first before you make your hoice. 80% of the time, people always goes to the person they like caust he/she is the guy/gal next door. but they often ignor the peepz who trully loves them till its too late. ^^ its true really. |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Jan 5, 2006 20:03:21 GMT 8
Almost everything in life is a gamble... A part of the lyrics in "Journey to the Past"- Anastasia... kinda says it all for me this year... "People always say, life is full of choices... no one ever mentions FEAR..." Fear of choices? Making the wrong ones? and having to go with your choice till the end... 2006 will be full of them (choices), .... ....  that's the interesting and annoying part about the future.... You'll never know what will happened till you get there. ^^ |
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Post by ronin on Jan 19, 2006 21:22:32 GMT 8
just a sad story o' mine: 3 years ago may gf ako. we broke up kasi ayaw ng parents niya. so I waited mga 2 years after we broke up. just this July i got communication with her ulit. she gave me a chance, kasi ngayon daw legal ni siya magka bf. so i did everything i could, kasi those 2 years I was only single, though meron ako ibang natriphan na girls, siya pa rin talaga. and just last month ata di na siya gaano nagrereply sa akin (yeah we live far from each other kaya minsan dalaw dalaw pero most of the time text lang kasi long distance din) she wasn't entertaining me. not even once a day. I wonder why. just last night, nagparamdam ako. she told me. "lets stay friends, friendship is all I can give. btw I have a bf na and I love him so much.. sori.. bye" and that moment I felt like nagpakatanga lang ako. she should've told me na lang honestly rather than let it pass mga isang buwan na di niya ako kinakausap and ended it with that. years I've waited... all for nothin'. oh well that's life for me. s**t happens, bro. i had this seatmate in college. first day pa lang ng pasukan, crush ko na. we became friends; we both enjoyed each other's company. looking back, i told myself sana we both stayed as friends na lang. kaso, di kasi ako nakatiis, niligawan ko. ayun, umilap. and it went on and on during my 4 years of college...every semester, nililigawan ko siya; every semester, binabasted niya ako. seasonal love story, eh? in between, may nililigawan din naman ako para di mabakante . kaya lang iba siya bro, siya yung tipo ng girl na pakakasalan mo. you know what i mean? kaya talagang pinagtyatyagaan kong ligawan kahit mataas ang risk na mabasted ako. kaso, talagang di kami nagkatuluyan. i guess we are really fated to a certain girl, somebody whom we'll really love and who'll love us in return--unconditionally. all the others--well, as i said, s**t happens. |
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Post by Checkmate! on Feb 2, 2006 17:27:24 GMT 8
di ko alam kung saan ilagaya ito e. I'm 26 y.o. already and my co worker is 21. I think i'm falling for her na. I'm 5 years older than her kaya medyo alangan ako. Masyado ba malaki agwat ng age namin? Is she too young for me?
Nasa stage na ako kung saan i'm serious na pagdating sa relationships. yaw ko na ng mga pa date date lang para ma subukan lang kung paano. After my last break up as in sobra takot na ako mag simula. Pero eto nanaman me nameet na ako. Iniisip ko lang paano kung maging kami? as in ma in love na ako ng todo. what if kung ganun na nga magkatuluyan kami pero baka sinusubukan niya lang makigap date diba? tulad ko dati na di pa seryoso.
para kasing ngayun pa lang alam ko na ending e. sensya na. pessimistic lang talaga ako sa lahat ng bagay. totoo yan. but i need help guys. any suggestions. may kilala na ba kayo tulad ng sitwasyon ko? na mas older yung guy?
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Post by kamadoma on Feb 2, 2006 19:17:16 GMT 8
ronin yep my friends were telling me na it's been years that I am hoping for her and still nothing. oh well, I dunno... if it's not meant to be, it's not. might as well get more zoids than keep trying on a girl for years.
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Post by patacat on Feb 2, 2006 22:20:12 GMT 8
5 years age difference is not bad and if you think that's something, I am currently dating a girl who is 8 years younger then me. hehehe ganyan talga pag mukhang bata. naks. to checkmate: having a such an age gap isnt a bad thing, unless you are dating a minor. im also dating a girl that is almost 5yrs younger than i am. im turning 26 this feb and she gonna turn 22 on sept pa. but i dont see any problems with it. like you checkmate, im looking for someone to settle down with and i think if we both play our cards right, even if these women are much younger than us then settling down with them shouldnt be a problem. |
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Post by archaznable on Feb 2, 2006 23:17:54 GMT 8
hehehe age doesn't matter naman when you are talking about some one you really love ....  |
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Post by Checkmate! on Feb 3, 2006 1:16:13 GMT 8
5 years age difference is not bad and if you think that's something, I am currently dating a girl who is 8 years younger then me. kamusta naman? |
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Post by Checkmate! on Feb 3, 2006 1:16:56 GMT 8
5 years age difference is not bad and if you think that's something, I am currently dating a girl who is 8 years younger then me. hehehe ganyan talga pag mukhang bata. naks. to checkmate: having a such an age gap isnt a bad thing, unless you are dating a minor. im also dating a girl that is almost 5yrs younger than i am. im turning 26 this feb and she gonna turn 22 on sept pa. but i dont see any problems with it. like you checkmate, im looking for someone to settle down with and i think if we both play our cards right, even if these women are much younger than us then settling down with them shouldnt be a problem. Oo nga. wish me luck. |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Feb 3, 2006 2:55:02 GMT 8
di ko alam kung saan ilagaya ito e. I'm 26 y.o. already and my co worker is 21. I think i'm falling for her na. I'm 5 years older than her kaya medyo alangan ako. Masyado ba malaki agwat ng age namin? Is she too young for me? Nasa stage na ako kung saan i'm serious na pagdating sa relationships. yaw ko na ng mga pa date date lang para ma subukan lang kung paano. After my last break up as in sobra takot na ako mag simula. Pero eto nanaman me nameet na ako. Iniisip ko lang paano kung maging kami? as in ma in love na ako ng todo. what if kung ganun na nga magkatuluyan kami pero baka sinusubukan niya lang makigap date diba? tulad ko dati na di pa seryoso. para kasing ngayun pa lang alam ko na ending e. sensya na. pessimistic lang talaga ako sa lahat ng bagay. totoo yan. but i need help guys. any suggestions. may kilala na ba kayo tulad ng sitwasyon ko? na mas older yung guy? my GF is is 5 years younger than me. no biggie. if she feels the same way, its good even what age difference your at. ( as long shes not a minor ^^) |
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Post by ronin on Feb 6, 2006 20:35:50 GMT 8
ronin yep my friends were telling me na it's been years that I am hoping for her and still nothing. oh well, I dunno... if it's not meant to be, it's not. might as well get more zoids than keep trying on a girl for years. that's right bro, get on with your life. you'd still meet a lot of girls, anyway . who knows, you'd find a much more infinitely better one who'd be definitely for you! but if you and your ex are really fated for each other, who knows, you'd end up with each other even if you're already in your 80s! which reminds me. here's a good book to read this valentine's season: "Love In The Time of Cholera" by Gabriel Garcia Marquez. if you believe in fate, serendipity, soul mate, etc., this book is for you! cheers!  |
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