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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Nov 6, 2005 12:34:58 GMT 8
Bket? Mali ba yung sinabi ko? I mean... If you have nothing in common... As in ZERO... Magpapakamatay ka nlng sa sobrang laki ng frustration and stress na makukuha mo from your relationship... But if your a sick man and you're really after that... well... by all means... find someone you have nothing in common with.. Hmmm... morbid ba? wenk! well, meron naman. there's alot of girls na in common naman, (but sum girls i know.) mas prefer yung guys na lam lolokohin sila. Not saying this to all grils.. But, There are sum that, even the right guy hits them in their face, Pipiliin nila yung guy na gagamitin lng sila... Nag bubulagan sa lng.... its really sad... Sa case naman ng friend natin here, may common lng pero, may nagyari sum thing wrong in their relationship para mag kaganun... diba? And not because na zero in common kayo, it doesn't mean na, walang pagasa mag ka in-love kayo and have a relationship? My GF now and I had nothing in common, But we are in-love with each other.. ^_^ we just work it out and mas maganday opposites attract he he  |
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Post by Adelaine on Nov 8, 2005 11:57:02 GMT 8
One of my closest friends and I have absolutely nada in common, but there's no better friend I could ask for, and no one who knows me better. Ah, but I guess fairy tales do happen, sometimes?  OUUUUCCHHHIIIEESS!! Yah, I can relate. Unrequited love from my best male friend for six freakin' years. Babae pa ako, so syempre hanggang pasimple lang magagawa ko pero wala talaga. I guess that doesn't hurt as much as kung naging kayo, but it did drive me near enough suicidal. Got over it na, finally. Nga naman. Hindi ka talaga makakahanap ng perfect girl/guy, e di gumawa ka na lang. Customizable pa! Pag nainis ka na, just keep on modifying to taste. Someday, I wanna build Zero. Reploids major r0x0rz, and they're cuter than real guys (no offense), hehe. Kaya nga ako nag-robotics major e. One month old na pala 'tong thread, hope you're ok na. Friend of mine said na kahit sino namang girlfriend e high-maintenance e. But think about it, balang araw, if things work out, she's going to be the mother of your children, di ba? Kanino mo naman ipapamana yung mga toys mo? Hahahahaha.... Watch it. Hindi kayo ang nabubuntis. I have friends who are illigitimate children, and puro nanay ang nag-palaki sa kanila. If something happens between a guy and the girl which results into you-know-what, it's the guy who can always walk away. So can you blame us if we're picky? Picky doesn't mean fickle, tho, and I have to say that there really are girls who play around (just like there are guys who do). Manipulation comes naturally to us, and I've noticed that we can easily wrap boys around the figurative little finger. Most girls do this unintentionally, it really is just part of who we are. But there are some who do take advantage, and it's girls like those that make me ashamed of my own gender. Sexist nga yung thread. Dagdagan pa natin. Guys understand guys. Girls understand guys. Guys don't understand girls. Girls don't understand girls either. Hindi ka talaga sasaya kung pipilitin mong intindihin and hindi maintindihan. But take it from a girl, minsan hindi rin namin maintindihan sarili namin. Ang problema nga lang e (from what I've seen), mas malalim magtanim ng galit ang mga babae in general. At mas irrational talaga. Kaya pagbigyan nyo na mhin. I could kill over this statement. Good looks doesn't mean a guy will fall for you, but no guy will notice you unless you've got them. That's quoted from said best friend. Patas lang. Naha-heartbroken ang guys, naha-heartbroken din ang girls. In the end, umiikot pa rin ang mundo. Kaya magpakamatay ka na lang </sarcasm>. |
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Post by kamadoma on Nov 8, 2005 12:29:03 GMT 8
wow ung love story thread ko naging 100 replies na! hehehehe. ako so far single ulit, enjoying all the dough for zoids. di na ako nadalaw sa kanya eh... hehee.
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Post by Adelaine on Nov 8, 2005 12:40:14 GMT 8
Oo nga 'no, di ko nahala na #99 pala. 'sensya na napahaba.
Zoids won't leave you heartbroken, ika nga. Di pa rin ako iniiwan ng first love kong si Zero.
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Post by Joemar on Nov 8, 2005 12:42:16 GMT 8
Alam ko din naman na nasasaktan din ang girls pero...alam mo yun...pag sya yung naki-pag break eh...feel mo ikaw lang....malalaman mo din pag sa sobrang lalim ng isipin mo kung baket ganun yun nangyari.... ;D ewan ko ba...dehins kasi ako malapit a girls eh... pag-may crush ako...bigay lang ako ng gift sa kanya...kahit di ko kilala....tapos yun lang...parang once in a blue moon lang nangyari... weirdo talaga ako..  o dehins ako mahilig makipag-relasyon...  |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Nov 8, 2005 20:24:18 GMT 8
One of my closest friends and I have absolutely nada in common, but there's no better friend I could ask for, and no one who knows me better. Ah, but I guess fairy tales do happen, sometimes? Hey its just up to the two of you you know? I'll use to have the worst of luck before, when it comes to love.... My first gf died.. second GF, didn't work out. And my thrid, well.. pinag palit ako sa ibang guy.. the worst part. niloko lng sya ng guy. Coz the guy is a "Player" and likes to manupilate girls... You know the old chestnut story. Thought it was the right guy then it turns out it was not.  Anyway, Its just up to the peepz to decide... we all have free will, but we never utilize it in the right way..  |
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Post by archaznable on Nov 8, 2005 20:46:17 GMT 8
well the moral story here is we should be real honest with each other in the first place because when the time of breaking up has come there are no hurt feelings that is left with each other because of honesty. Honesty is the best policy in a relationship .... if you are not honest with the girl or a boy the tendency of breaking up will become bad and the worst part of it was a real misunderstanding of both parties..
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Post by patacat on Nov 8, 2005 22:03:54 GMT 8
wow ung love story thread ko naging 100 replies na! hehehehe. ako so far single ulit, enjoying all the dough for zoids. di na ako nadalaw sa kanya eh... hehee. hey it was a heart-felt story. plus everyone who posted could relate to it, having experienced a heartbreak and all. to adelaine: welcome to the boards . galing a. you really made the effort to catch up on this topic. on behalf of the guys here who posted sexist comments, that would include me, i apologize. some of us got a bit too emotional. hehehe ;D |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Nov 9, 2005 0:04:48 GMT 8
wow ung love story thread ko naging 100 replies na! hehehehe. ako so far single ulit, enjoying all the dough for zoids. di na ako nadalaw sa kanya eh... hehee. hey it was a heart-felt story. plus everyone who posted could relate to it, having experienced a heartbreak and all. to adelaine: welcome to the boards . galing a. you really made the effort to catch up on this topic. on behalf of the guys here who posted sexist comments, that would include me, i apologize. some of us got a bit too emotional. hehehe ;D been there done that narin ako dun eh... To kamadora only: and who knows di ba? baka may nakalaan para syo man. |
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Post by patacat on Nov 9, 2005 0:20:27 GMT 8
to anakin: been there done that ka talga. masaya k n ngayon e. may "cover girl" ka na to keep you company |
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Post by Anakin Skywalker on Nov 9, 2005 1:13:18 GMT 8
Been broken hearted so many times in my years at elementary and up to high school but it was that one time in high school which broken my heart the worst. I'm not much to look at due to my size, and certainly not very rich, but just simple, and of course I did well in my studies except I never take much notice to it then. It was in 4th year high school that the "manipulation" happen to me with a girl who since she graduate from sixth grade suddenly transfer back to my school and became my "girlfriend". She wanted me to help her with her studies and would talk about school work over the phone and after that we would tell each other how we miss each other and hope to be with each other the next morning. I didn't suspect that I was being manipulated back then even though my friend (boys and girls of my class) warn me about it. December that year we went out for a walk and she ask to have her pic taken at a nearby studio and I say ok no problem. I think I must have spent nearly 400 pesos there for her. She told me she would pay me back next week, so I figure ok no problem. But I never did get my money after that. She wold always come up with an excuse for something. Then came feb for the JS Dance and of course we all want to look our best and most beautiful even just for 1 night. She then come to me to says she can't be able to pay me due to she will be using the money for her dress. Ok I let her off again. She promise me she would let me walk her home that night, but it didn't happen. after the dance she was the first to leave the restaurant were we held the prom. I found out the next couple of day from my friend why she left that night (up till now I am still not sure whether its real or just to get me away from her). Some of friend learn through their connection that she was with someone that night and was doing you-know-what with him while some of their chums were watching them. The following week I decided that I don't want to sit next to her in class and some of the girls ask me to join them in their conversation and sit with them. My best bud, told me that I did the right thing, if she was tested with something, well I would be the prime target even though I didn't do it. after that classmate are just classmate and no more girlfriend for me. Of course I was broken hearted what else can I do, where to take out my frustration. As I was walking home one day I saw in a near by toy store optimus prime and remember seeing this on TV the previous month so I decided to get one and a few other toys (which I don't even know what they are). and so since then I been saving my moneys to buy transformers and other toys. I never did get my money back and I have lost track of her since then, but I do know one thing that night when she did it, it wasn't with her boyfriend/lover from the previous school, and I learn that he was her 2nd or probably 3rd boy friend and she has lost her "v" to either the 1st or the 2nd one, whoever. This is my love life or broken heart sorry which lead me to transformers and up till now still without a girlfriend and which my parents wish me to get married so that they may have grandsons/granddaughters. My brother follow my lead and uptill now all still single. Each have their own hobbies to keep them occupy. almost same as mine. I understand what you have gone though.. the first few weeks are hard trust me i know definitely. Well its funny, the only difference to mine is, as you know we all collect stuf and its our output. But what if, that the person you love has this same output. ( i mean shes an anime fan. and a cosplayer. Ok! you got me on why i don't trust peepz from CPs) You know UOP, life can really be a B*tch But Sumtimes God has a plan for each of us. Sum may not agree to this due to what they believe in. But trust me, Sumtimes, there are ways we cannot explain... But, don't worry. There is always sumthing better that will come in to your life. ^__^ To patacat: Nu ba yan binuking mo naman ako eheh joke. sinabi ko naman eh hehee ;D |
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Post by patacat on Nov 9, 2005 1:35:32 GMT 8
This frustration has been bottle up inside me for 20 years already and this is the first time I let it out of me. I remember the pain my heart felt that day upon hearing it and I still feel the anger that came with it. It may have been like letting off steam but it certainly didn't reduce the pressure that's still building inside me. :< being two-timed and used is a very difficult, frustrating and down right humilating experience to deal with. i should know, it happened to me. the worst part is, i only found out about it after my EX broke up with me, which was a year after it happened. so wala akong habol, which made it even more frustrating. nakakababa ng self-esteem talga. nakakagalit pa lalo is when you dont get an apology or at least an explanation as to why she did it. breaks my heart everytime i recall my experience. and i sympathize with everyone else who has gone through the same ordeal. |
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Post by Adelaine on Nov 9, 2005 5:16:54 GMT 8
patacat: Never took offense po. When it comes to these things, everybody's sexist, and you can't not be; after all you've got one X and one Y chromosome while I've got two X's, and yes it makes one heckuva difference. I think I should apologize also kung may... uhm... nasagasaan nung uber-long post ko. I can be terribly frank sometimes, but I never mean offense to anybody. For the record, most people say I think like a guy. But I'm just as emotional as any girl you can find. There's no excuse for that, and as a girl, I wish I could apologize for all the girls who do that. Regretfully, it does happen a lot nowadays, and there's nothing I can say in defense other than that ...uhm... some girls really have their moments..... Some girls do it, but there are guys who do it too. It's the same for both sexes. And the consequences are worse if it's the guy who uses the girl. I won't bring up the pregnancy issue again. Uhm, I'm am anime fan, and I'm a cosplayer........... Ganito yon, and I can say this from experience: How much pain you experience now is going to be how happy you are when things finally come together for you.
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Post by Joemar on Nov 9, 2005 6:32:19 GMT 8
i hope my gf now will stay with me longer..or better... forever na...dati hinde nya maintindihan kung sino ako...pero ngayon nasanay na sya...
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Post by Joemar on Nov 9, 2005 6:34:25 GMT 8
Ang dami din nagsabi sakin nyan dati...totoo yan Maraming pwedeng piliin na paths after a break-up... |
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Anyway, Its just up to the peepz to decide... we all have free will, but we never utilize it in the right way.. 
